Longing To Change Your Career? Forbes Writer, Kathy Caprino, Offers Advice

Before 9/11, I felt trapped in a 15-year corporate career that didn’t align with my values, preferences, talents and desires. But I had worked so hard to create success and recognition in it that I was, simply speaking, scared to death to let it go. After a long while, serious crises began to hit, one after the other, and I finally got the message that I needed to make a change, and fast.

So I sought outside help – a therapist, a career counselor, mentor and more. Sadly, none of this helped me learn the key lessons I now know are essential if you want to change directions successfully, without losing everything or making a big mistake.

Finally, I took the plunge (after a brutal layoff in the days following 9/11) and made the change I was dreaming of. I became a therapist, career coach, writer, speaker and leadership trainer for women. I can confidently say, after helping over 10,000 professionals improve their careers, that changing your career to something more suited to your authentic self is doable, even in these tough economic times. And it’s a life-changer.

But to switch careers effectively and achieve a positive outcome, you need a number of critical ingredients, namely: clarity (to understand what you really want not just dream about), courage (to pursue a new direction even through risk and fear), and perseverance (to commit staunchly to transitioning, even when the going gets hard). Without these, you’ll most likely struggle hard and fail. Further, there are core steps you must take to ensure you are emotionally, financially, and professionally ready for this next step and for the eight important stages that you’ll undergo.

Step one to successful career change is to get real with yourself – take off your rose-colored glasses, and “get hip to your trip” about what you’ve created so far, and how you’ve potentially contributed to all the challenges you face.

It’s critical to stop blaming others and the outside world, and begin to hold yourself more accountable than ever before for what’s in front of you. If chucking your career is appealing, certainly explore the process of career change and start trying on the new directions that appeal to you most. But make sure you take concrete steps necessary to do the internal work first to shift yourself to a more positive place, and avoid the five top blunders so many career changes make. These missteps will wreak havoc on your life, relationships, health, your check book, and your future.

The Five Biggest Blunders Career Changers Make Are:

1. Running to the opposite end of the world to escape your unhappy career

I’ve coined a term “The Pendulum Effect” to describe when, after years of being unhappy in your career, you finally snap, and you want to run as far away as you can from your pain. If you’re struggling and you’ve waited too long to make change in your current situation, you’ve most likely grown to hate your job, or your colleagues, the work you do and skills you use, and you want to escape to the opposite direction in the world. This was me 15 years ago – I couldn’t stand what I was doing or who I was doing it for, so I ran to the farthest corner of the professional world I could find – from corporate life to becoming a marriage and family therapist. In hindsight, my training as a therapist was a powerful, life-changing experience that gave me skills and expertise for success in my work today. But living the professional “identity” of a therapist – and dealing as I did with the many dark sides of humanity – rape, incest, pedophilia, suicidality, drug addiction, attempted murder, etc. — was, in the end, not what I wanted for my life and career. I needed a second reinvention to create the best work fit for me.

The way out of this misstep is this: Don’t wait until you are desperately unhappy in your current situation to make change. And definitely don’t leap before you’ve improved your current situation (even if you think you can’t). Wherever you are today, empower yourself to better it. Repair broken relationships, build more self-respect, find your voice, advocate for what you want, develop your expertise, and become more of a leader. Do the thing that scares you the most. Become BOLD. Then, when you do leave, you’ll be able to achieve and attract a much better role, and have the internal power to create more success and reward in your work. Running away will not solve your problems – they’ll just be repeated in the next chapter if you don’t address them now.

2. Not developing a sound financial plan that will carry you through your transition

Changing careers takes time, money and effort. Thousands of professionals dream of making a change, but have no available money to do it – either in the bank or accessible through other avenues. And they haven’t researched how long their transition will likely take.

The harsh reality is this: You can’t go from making $75,000 or $100,00 in one career to replicating that salary in a completely new career, without it taking a good deal of time and effort. And to make a change that will be lucrative and successful, you have to follow key steps in the process. Skipping these steps ends in detours and problems.

One critical step is to do solid research to explore your desired change with your accountant and financial consultant and experts in that career to understand clearly – without emotion and without a “build it and they will come” mentality – the financial requirements necessary to support you through what can be years of transition. If there’s no money available, wait until you can access some (earn more, borrow, use your bonus, etc.) or lower your expenses to sock away what you’ll need.

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Meet Kathy Caprino, a career success coach, leadership trainer, author and speaker dedicated to the advancement of women. She runs a career and leadership consulting and training firm — Ellia Communications — that offers programs, training and resources for career growth. She is a former corporate VP, a trained therapist and career specialist, and she has worked with over 10,000 professional women and emerging leaders globally. Along with Forbes, she blogs for Huffington Post, LinkedIn, and her own Ellia Communications career blog. Her book Breakdown, Breakthrough: The Professional Woman’s Guide to Claiming a Life of Passion, Power and Purpose, explores the 12 hidden challenges working women face today and how to overcome them.

Kathy is a guest blogger for TurtleWise. We are excited to have her share personal experiences and knowledge. Stay tuned for upcoming posts from Kathy Caprino.

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